Modern SMS Etiquette: Why You Shouldn't Leave Someone on Read and How to End It Politely

We Are What We Text

In modern dating, 90% of early interaction is digital. Your texting style is your business card.

1. The Tyranny of 'Seen'

Leaving someone on 'Read' for days is the digital equivalent of turning your back on someone speaking to you.

Etiquette: If busy, don't open it. If opened, reply: "Busy now, will reply properly tonight." Basic respect.

2. The Waiting Game vs. Double Texting

Don't play games with response times. Authenticity is sexy. However, avoid desperate Double Texting (sending 5 messages in a row). Keep the balance 1:1.

3. How to End It (Anti-Ghosting)

No chemistry? Don't ghost. Be brave.

Template:

"Hi! Thanks for the time. I enjoyed meeting you, but honestly, I didn't feel the romantic connection I'm looking for. I wish you all the best!"

It takes 10 seconds. It saves them confusion and saves your reputation.

Concluzie

Digital Karma exists. Treat others' inboxes with the clarity and respect you desire for your own.